7 habits of highly effective teens
Habit 4
4. Think
win-win
Teens can
learn to foster the belief that it is possible to create an atmosphere of
win-win in every relationship. This habit encourage the idea that in any given
discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a mutually beneficial
solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishment of others
instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is a belief that everyone can
win. It’s both nice and thought all at once. I won’t step on you, but I won’t
be your doormat either. You care about other people and you want them to
succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to succeed as well.
Win-Win is abundant. It is the belief that there’s plenty of success to go
around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s not a matter of who
gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food for everyone.
It’s all you-can-eat buffet. Win-win always creates more. Perhaps the most
surprising benefits of thinking Win-Win is good feelings it brings on. The true
test to whether you are thinking Win-Win or one of the alternatives how you
feel. Win-lose and Lose-Win thinking will cloud your judgment and feel you with
negative feelings. Win-Win will fill your heart with happy and serene thought.
It will give you confidence. Even fill you with light. Think Win-Win or no
deal.
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